Mabel Essien says her husband, Michael Essien, met the suspect in high school and gave him a second chance when he was homeless.
HOUSTON — It’s hard to imagine the pain of losing your husband and 2-year-old son, but that is Mabel Essien’s reality.
Her husband Michael Essien, 38, was shot and killed Tuesday afternoon in southwest Houston. Hours later her son, Micah, was found dead inside the family’s stolen SUV nearby.
“He was very selfless, he put everybody above himself,” said Mabel, speaking about the loss of her husband and son. “Didn’t give me the chance to see him go to college, didn’t give me the chance to wake up every day and potty train him”
Surveillance video captured the meeting between Michael and the man accused of killing him, 38-year-old Bolanie Fadairo, in the parking lot of a southwest Houston shopping center on El Camino Del Ray Tuesday afternoon. Houston police say Fadairo shot and killed Michael.
Fadairo had told investigators Michael owed him money, but Mabel says it was her husband who was always helping him.
“When my husband met [Fadairo], we went to get our clothes from the cleaners, either get clothes or turn in clothes, and he saw someone sitting on the pavement like a bum on the road,” she said.
She said that was Fadairo. She says her husband recognized him from high school and gave him a second chance. Her husband was a security guard and got Fadairo a security job and often gave him cash, even letting him use his mailing address.
“He took him under his wings,” she told KHOU 11. but said Fadairo’s behavior eventually made him worry. “I told him, this guy is going to make you loose your contract,” she said.
But Tuesday afternoon, police say after he killed Michael, he stole his SUV with his two-year-old child in the backseat and dumped the SUV nearby on Elm Street.
Home surveillance cameras show neighbors going about their day, not knowing a child was dying inside a hot car.
“That guy denied my kids the opportunity to know the great father that everybody had to know,” Mabel said.
Fadairo appeared in court and is charged with two counts of murder, along with tampering with evidence. Because of his criminal history, which goes back two decades, prosecutors asked for a high bond. It was granted at $1.5 million dollars.
Mabel said still can’t believe her husband and son are gone, but it’s their spirit she will always carry with her.
“I want the world to see other people in Michael’s eyes – that’s the only way my husband’s legacy can move forward,” she said.
More than anything, this mom is asking for prayers. She’s raising two other kids, the youngest just a few weeks old. To read more about how you can support the family, click here.